Friday, November 15, 2013

Power Couples... Superficial or Empowering?

Okay, So I was conversing with a friend of mine and I told him that whenever I find "that one", I want very much so to be a POWER COUPLE.  He looked at me and asked, "Well, don't you think that is very Superficial?"  I smacked my lips and said, "Hell No!!"  Their take on it is that only Celebrities can be Power Couples and you must have money and etc...  Ummm, BLAH!!
 
There is a lot of scrutiny in this whole "power couple" thing, but I feel that it's all in how YOU choose to live your life and what you want in your partner.  I'm not superficial and I definitely don't think I'm some sort of celebrity or anything.  I just want that Strong Black Man encouraging and uplifting me as I would reciprocate for him.  I'm no trophy wife type of girl but I can guarantee I would complement him without a doubt (Yes, I'm just that confident).  Hey, men love a Confident woman.  Isn't that right guys? :-)
 
Some people choose to live a more quiet life and there is nothing wrong with that.  I don't turn my nose up at that idea, but people seem to turn their noses up at me about what I want.  Yeah... I don't care... I DO ME!!  Maybe, some people don't feel its attainable; yet, they secretly deep down want that same empowerment too (snickering to myself).  Just be honest with yourself.  
 
For those who have met me, still in my circle/space or just crossed my path, typically view me as the quiet, private person, yet dominate and intimidating.  (Hey, these are not my adjectives). Okay, moving along... I feel there are key components to being a Power Couple.  I won't list them all; however, I know that whomever that man shall be will want me as an equal partner, will also believe women should be smart, ambitious and opinionated.  Whew, now that's a sexy man!! Lol!!  Above all, we BOTH will have high-powered careers and will be influential.  Oh yeah... he exists out there somewhere and I WILL find him.
 
I love to radiate positive energy and empower others.  So, why not have that relationship where we do it together?  We'll be sure to know when that time has arrived because people will begin to admire us; yet, Definitely criticize due to extreme envy.  (Ha... Don't you just love that)!  It shall only push you further and remind you that people are admiring and taking notes.  Yeah, well that's the point!!
 
All in all, everyone has the right to feel however they choose about relationships and the whole power couple thing.  Whatever... DO YOU!!  I say it's not all about money, but the Majority of those type of relationships do have wealth.  What is wrong with that??  Absolutely nothing!!  I do not feel it's Superficial at all.  So after writing all of this, I STILL say that I want to be a Power Couple.  You may form your own opinion of me and that's perfectly fine.  I'm putting this out over social media so comment away as you please... Just know that it changes nothing.  I live for me and you should be living for you. 

~Live Unapologetically  

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